《為什麼有人一定要踩著別人往上爬?》
- ivy chuang

- Nov 24
- 2 min read
我常常會問自己:一個人要有多沒有自信,才會需要踩著別人,才能確保自己不會倒下?
在我們的行業裡,很多人不是靠實力,也不是靠努力,而是靠威權、靠人脈、靠排擠別人來「保住位置」。他們不是要變強,只是怕別人比自己更強。
當一個人深層地感到不安、害怕被取代、沒有能力承受比較時,他就會選擇最不需要努力的方式:不是提升自己,而是壓低別人。
因為踩人比進步容易;掠奪比成長快。
但這樣得來的位置,真的穩嗎?我從來不這樣認為。
靠威權搶來的機會,會被更大的威權搶走;靠踩著別人站起來的舞台,只要腳下那個人離開,他就會立即摔倒。
真正站得穩的,只有自己做出來的東西:你的能力、你的努力、你的作品、你的人格。
所以我一直相信:你不需要傷害任何人,就可以走得很遠。你越努力,越不需要排擠别人;你越有實力,越不需要害怕比較。
而那些靠踩人才站得住的人,其實不是強,而是比誰都怕。
《Why Do Some People Need to Step on Others to Rise?》
I often ask myself:how insecure must a person beto need to stand on othersjust to feel steady?
In our field,many people don’t rise through skill or hard work,but through authority, connections,or pushing others out of the way.They’re not trying to grow—they’re trying to prevent others from growing.
When someone fears being replaced,lacks confidence in their ability,or cannot handle comparison,they choose the easiest route:not improving themselves,but weakening others.
Because tearing someone downis always easier than lifting yourself up.
But positions gained this way are never stable.What’s taken by forcewill be taken away by a stronger force.And a stage built on someone else’s backcollapses the moment that person steps aside.
The only thing that truly lastsis what you build yourself—your ability, your effort, your work, your character.
So I believe this deeply:you don’t need to harm anyone to go far.The stronger you become, the less you need to fear competition.And those who rely on stepping on othersare not powerful—they’re frightened.



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