「我們往往會將自己的煩惱怪罪於他人，會令問題不能解決，其實只要自己改變便能解決。」“We often blame others for our suffering, but real change begins when we change ourselves.”

ivy chuang
12 minutes ago
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怪罪是最容易的反應，但它幫不了我們進步。 無論是生活還是音樂，真正有改變的時刻，往往是你願意對自己誠實的時候。

很多學生會說：「這首歌太難」「我不夠運氣好」「我老師沒講清楚」，但其實真正的突破，常常來自一句話：「我是不是可以換個方式試？」 我也曾經在練習裡卡關很久，不是因為技巧，而是我一直用同一種思維看待問題。 當我放下埋怨、轉個角度，音就通了，心也鬆了。

教學也是一樣。學生學不好，有時不是他不努力，而是我需要換一種方法引導。 真正的掌控，不是在別人身上，而是自己能不能調整、願不願意改變。 你怎麼對待問題，世界就怎麼回應你。

 Blame is the easiest thing to reach for, but it rarely leads to real change. In both music and life, transformation often begins the moment we stop asking, “Why is this happening to me?” and start asking, “What can I shift in me?”

I’ve had students say, “This piece is too hard,” or “My teacher didn’t explain it well.” But the real turning point often comes when they ask themselves, “What if I try this differently?” I’ve been stuck in practice rooms too—not because I lacked technique, but because I kept approaching the same passage with the same mindset. When I stopped blaming, softened, and opened another way of seeing, the music finally flowed. The same applies to teaching. If a student isn’t improving, maybe it’s not their fault—maybe I need to speak in a way they can hear.

Real control never lives in someone else’s hands. It starts with our willingness to respond differently. And when you shift, the world shifts with you.

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